The Human Side
Real stories and practical ideas on leading ourselves, working together, and building workplaces that work for humans.
The Cost of Silence
Silence feels like the safe choice. It avoids the difficult conversation, sidesteps the risk of saying the wrong thing, and keeps the peace, at least on the surface.
It is also rarely neutral. Silence is always carrying something: the disagreement that doesn't feel safe to voice, the confusion we can't quite name, the message we've read three times and still haven't answered.
On the other side of it, someone is filling in the blank. They almost always fill it with something worse than the truth. One unanswered message reads as an oversight. A pattern of them starts to feel like disrespect, because silence leaves people nothing else to work with.
In organizations, that multiplies. Ideas stay unspoken. Conflict calcifies into the subtext of every meeting. None of it shows up on a dashboard, and all of it is there in the gap between what could have happened and what did.
Which raises a question worth sitting with. What does your silence give you that a simple response would take away?
Tuning Up The Whole Team
While it’s important to have strong individuals on a team, working on the connection between team members is the forgotten but necessary step for any high performing team
The Cost of Misalignment Is Momentum
Momentum is a factor of clarity and energy - how can you create them for your team and what is the cost of missing out?
Working Genius: Solving Disengagement by Tracking Energy
There’s an easy tool for leaders to help boost productivity across their team without adding stress - The Working Genius
Your teams aren't disengaged. They're protecting themselves.
When people go quiet, it's easy to mistake silence for agreement. But silence is data — and it's telling you something about the environment, not the people.
From Great People to Great Outcomes
Hiring the right people is key, building a system for them is invaluable.
3 Types of Strong Opinion
Not all strong opinions are created equal. This post breaks down the three real motivations behind them, from insecurity dressed up as expertise to genuine, well-earned advice, and why telling them apart changes how you respond.
The Truth In Complaints
Everyone complains at work. What if they are all (at least a little bit) right?
Why Your Team Isn’t Responding to Your Motivation
The challenges of group motivation and ranked performance
Words from Other Languages to Describe Your Coworkers
Need to explain something? There’s a Word for That (It’s Just Not In English)
Help is All Around [Us]
We are not alone, we don’t have to do it alone, and we are truly better together
Cat Got Your Tongue? Let It Keep It
Learning how to communicate with humans by communicating with kittens
The Heroes that Get In Our Way
Heroes inspire and protect us…sometimes from our best interests.
